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Friendship Between Husband and Wife

Often couples deny to be best of friends but most of the time people truly in love to each other are good friends. Friendship gifts them a natural will power to stay beside and always generate a strong bonding through which they start understanding each other more closely.

When it comes to a successful relationship for the lifetime, friendship is a most important part of it. Husband and wife truly become best friends at the twilight of their life. All other relations seem vain and only true partnership continues.

That is the most ideal time when they really cherish the strength of the trust grown in between them. Its all about caring, sharing and loving each other, but at the same time it it about a healthy friendship. Friendship definitely grow spontaneously among lovers in any true love relationship. When your partner has started to understand words unuttered, began to read your mind as an open book… offer you help before you ask for it, and thus fulfill all the needs and limit, it is a result of true friendship.

There are many famous couples who were friends at first and then started dating each other. When friends become couples often their marriage last more than ordinary couples. The sense of aloofness and insecurity hardly come because friendship suffice the fact how better you understand and fulfill each other. Sometimes couples also become friends after marriage. And because of the strength of the bonding, their marriage lasts of a lifetime. These are some couples who are lifetime friends: Read the rest of this entry »

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Friendship and Love

Both are so much related to each other. And both are so dissimilar! What are the differences between friendship and love? Is platonic friendship possible between persons of opposite sex? Let us try and understand.

What is friendship? Why do we call a person our friend? When do we call someone a very good friend? If we care for a person, if we are always ready to help that person and if we share most of our thoughts with a person, they are our good friends. We can always count upon our good friends in an emergency. We are always sure that our friend will understand why we acted in a certain way. We need not explain anything to our very good friends. The friendship is so deep and the relationship is so intimate, that most of the things are automatically understood by our friends.

What about love? In a relationship of deep love, all the sharing that we discussed above are taken for granted. But love transcends all this. During love, we are attached with a particular person, while in friendship, one may have many friends. A loving relationship makes one so much attached to the other, that one gets pained if his/her beloved is hurt! Love also involves a physical element. Friendship does not have that. This is a vital difference. Nature gives us love so that the specie can go forward. Nature does not give us friendship. Read the rest of this entry »

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Consummate Love – Balancing Three Vital Flames

Three flickers of love,
Determined to be,
Gifts from above,
Ensuring love’s free.

Most might assume the ‘perfect match’ that is a triadic love represented by three flames – intimacy, commitment and passion – is what completes love, especially as it subsists, in the romantic, wedded love of a couple living their lives together.

In other words, it is friendship love, willed love and physical love – all in a sense combined – which makes marital love succeed most powerfully.

These three flames, as Rob Bell refers to them, all need to flicker healthily and in relative balance for a marital relationship to know the blissful and seamless joy of two persons bonded as one.

And this fundamentally is also the critical step of maintenance for the relationship to survive the backwashing tides and the unpredictable throes of ocean swell that upset seemingly all marriages. Read the rest of this entry »

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