Everybody feels sad from time to time and if you find yourself feeling the blues and you want to have a friend nearby, you can always call on them. On the other hand, what happens if your friend calls you and is feeling all blue. What do you do? Here are ways on how you can get them back smiling again.
Listen to them. People with the blues are often just feeling the need to be heard. So, listen intently to what they say and do nothing else. Your friend will surely appreciate you for being the shoulder she can cry on.
Once you are done listening, you can either offer an advice or you can remain silent and let her feel everything and let it all out by crying. As a friend you might feel obliged to give her an advice but if you have no idea how to, just remain silent and be there for her.
Remember the time when you were given a gift that even if you already know what is inside the box you are still happy you were given one? Take the time to send your friend a gift and see that sob face light up again.
Now that you are able to listen to their problem, give proper advice, and have given a token of gratitude. Try to take their mind off from that memory by keeping her busy but be mindful about how she would feel.
In order for you to be able to help your friend in need, don’t be sad yourself. How are you supposed to help your friend when you are also hitting the blues.
A hug can make a difference in the world. It makes you feel warm and special. A hug keeps you safe from the harsh world even for just a second that feeling is priceless. So, give your friend a hug when she needs it the most. Read the rest of this entry »
